This's definitely a (in)famous question, where the response stays indicative of experience and one's opinions ... Could a guy and a gal be friends, without any feelings or desire for gear shifting? I think yes. I'm not over-thinking the conundrum nor allowing contrary-based tales to sway my thoughts.
There are a lot of guy/gal friendships, which are not affiliated with lust or sex. There's not a "Homosexuality-Barrier" requirement either for this relationship to function, and turnout great, fulfilling and trusting. However, these barriers aren't rare cases and they are completely normal; It's not this packaged deal you cosign at Casa De Lesbo though, it's simply random.
You don't need to experiment with the other white meat, Suburbians ... If you're a straight gal, you are a straight gal; If you're a straight guy, you are a straight guy. And the Friendzone explains why a guy/gal friendship doesn't have to necessarily end up in the bedroom. If a guy and a gal are strictly friends, they have Friendzoned one another, out of a mutual respect and other factors. I've Friendzoned a man who, in return, has Friendzoned me. That's a nonverbal agreement incorporated, and I can't imagine experiencing any non-platonic feelings for him ever.
And yes, I've got other guy friends who per choice, I'll never date.
And yes, I've got other guy friends who per choice, I'll never date.
It's impossible for an individual to believe and to think every inter-gender friendship climaxes with a climax ... It's simpler than most think, because they are influenced by contrary-based evidence. If you catch a wave of feelings for a friend, there's probably an underlying cause. But, yet again, Friends Without Benefits is real.
Great concepts, Dolly ... Hope you're well!
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-Lydia.
I completely agree, Lydia!
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-Jennifer.