"I just can't believe a guy would think I'm sexy. Smart? Yes. Maybe even cute at times, but never sexy. Sexy is the thing that I try to get them to see in me after I win them over with my personality." ~ Miranda Hobbes.

Thursday, June 13, 2013

"Friends Without Benefits"

This's definitely a (in)famous question, where the response stays indicative of experience and one's opinions ... Could a guy and a gal be friends, without any feelings or desire for gear shifting? I think yes. I'm not over-thinking the conundrum nor allowing contrary-based tales to sway my thoughts. 

There are a lot of guy/gal friendships, which are not affiliated with lust or sex. There's not a "Homosexuality-Barrier" requirement either for this relationship to function, and turnout great, fulfilling and trusting. However, these barriers aren't rare cases and they are completely normal; It's not this packaged deal you cosign at Casa De Lesbo though, it's simply random.

You don't need to experiment with the other white meat, Suburbians ... If you're a straight gal, you are a straight gal; If you're a straight guy, you are a straight guy. And the Friendzone explains why a guy/gal friendship doesn't have to necessarily end up in the bedroom. If a guy and a gal are strictly friends, they have Friendzoned one another, out of a mutual respect and other factors. I've Friendzoned a man who, in return, has Friendzoned me. That's a nonverbal agreement incorporated, and I can't imagine experiencing any non-platonic feelings for him ever.

And yes, I've got other guy friends who per choice, I'll never date.

It's impossible for an individual to believe and to think every inter-gender friendship climaxes with a climax ... It's simpler than most think, because they are influenced by contrary-based evidence. If you catch a wave of feelings for a friend, there's probably an underlying cause. But, yet again, Friends Without Benefits is real.

2 comments:

  1. Great concepts, Dolly ... Hope you're well!
    Everything's well here.
    P.S ~ Loving all these new posts!
    -Lydia.

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    1. I completely agree, Lydia!
      P.S ~ Great new theme... FRESH!
      -Jennifer.

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