Usually, I'm the gal who considers all destructive and negative judgment ... I'm known for being weird. I speak of my cats a bit often. I act sloppy yet I'm not fond of drinking, and have never and will never touch a drug. I wear glasses and my complexion isn't the clearest one that's out there. I'm known for the strange brother (Meanwhile, the guy's autistic), and attaining a shitty track-record with men.
I chase assholes, and I'm known for that; I get unnecessary 'mercy-sympathy' from my girls when a love interest, is up on his woman clear as day. But, I'm never bitter or petty. I hope that he's happy, and her too.
However, I'm known for great stuff, too. I'm known for being caring ... I've been informed I'll make a fabulous mother, and a loving gal for the right guy. I'm known for using various forms of creative writing, as I question the Suburbs and write lyric per the right occasion. I've got desirable theater talent, a knack for interpreting roles. Although the negatives are seemingly perpetually center stage, I'm proud of everything that I've accomplished positively.
Why are we continuously believing the negative stuff that's said about us? Regardless the evidence which plays for the contrary, a ex-boyfriend, a face or a neighbor can cancel out everything we once believed to be true. In the matters of life and too love, why are our worst reviews the ones we listen to?
No one's "perfect". Don't strive for perfection either; It's a truly dangerous sport of self-obsession. Don't lose sight of yourself to please those who aren't worth pleasing, who perpetuate negative stereotypes and ridicule everyone's imperfections and shortcomings ... Brand yourself, perfection and sameness are dull, and you're unique being you.
I chase assholes, and I'm known for that; I get unnecessary 'mercy-sympathy' from my girls when a love interest, is up on his woman clear as day. But, I'm never bitter or petty. I hope that he's happy, and her too.
However, I'm known for great stuff, too. I'm known for being caring ... I've been informed I'll make a fabulous mother, and a loving gal for the right guy. I'm known for using various forms of creative writing, as I question the Suburbs and write lyric per the right occasion. I've got desirable theater talent, a knack for interpreting roles. Although the negatives are seemingly perpetually center stage, I'm proud of everything that I've accomplished positively.
Why are we continuously believing the negative stuff that's said about us? Regardless the evidence which plays for the contrary, a ex-boyfriend, a face or a neighbor can cancel out everything we once believed to be true. In the matters of life and too love, why are our worst reviews the ones we listen to?
No one's "perfect". Don't strive for perfection either; It's a truly dangerous sport of self-obsession. Don't lose sight of yourself to please those who aren't worth pleasing, who perpetuate negative stereotypes and ridicule everyone's imperfections and shortcomings ... Brand yourself, perfection and sameness are dull, and you're unique being you.
You're SO right!
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