"The Perfect Possibility?"

What is a perfect relationship? Is it when there is no fighting, no drama, no betrayal and amazing sex? Is there such thing? Is there such thing as a relationship where both partners never disagreed? They agree on everything? I have yet to hear of such a relationship... and probably never will.

Everyone has different opinions about what the perfect relationship is. More communication, less communication. More sex, or more dates. Sometimes, people just want a maid or a butler...not a partner. We all want something different. So unless you find someone exactly like you , you probably won't have the perfect relationship you envisioned.

A perfect relationship can get boring. No drama, no conflict. Just the same thing everyday. Think of  relationship as a book. People will continue reading the book if there is a bit of conflict. If there is no conflict, then the story gets boring and people put down the book and walk away. If you want your relationship to last, you need something to spice it up. Something like a little disagreement can help. And if you happen to be in a big fight and make amends with your partner, a little make up sex would be great too. A relationship can't stay intact if the relationship gets boring.

Some of you may disagree with me. You may say that absolutely no arguing is the way to keep a relationship together. If it has worked for you, who am I to tell you to stop. But if you're looking for the perfect relationship but still aren't happy, you may need to reconsider what a perfect relationship is. In my eyes, a perfect relationship is that of equal partners. No one 'wears the pants' in the relationship. The couple can get into some heated arguments, but never let a little argument break them apart. Instead, they are closer than ever. One less thing to fight about. And they are still together.

You can think what you want. You can think that a perfect relationship is when no arguments occur, or when someone is the boss of the other. You can think the perfect relationship is friends with benefits, no talk, no dates, just sex. But... is there truly such thing as the "perfect relationship"?