A recent thought of my last relationship got me thinking. When is someone ready to do 'it', and should they do 'it' even if they aren't ready? My ex always dropped hints that he was ready, even after only three weeks of dating. The thing is, I'm only fourteen and he's sixteen, so I wasn't ready. I told him I wasn't ready and that I thought I was too young. He thought he could change my mind. He was wrong.
No one is absolutely sure when they're ready. And everyone thinks of there first time differently. Some people just want to get it over with, and some people want to wait until they're married so it can be special. Girls are like snowflakes, no two girls are exactly the same. But guys, here is my advice. NEVER try to rush into a relationship and NEVER try to rush a girl into bed. Because she's probably going to dump you. Girls need time and don't like to think they're just a sex toy.
When a girl is ready, she will give you hints. If you're one of the guys who need time to be ready, most of us will respect you and wait. Except if the girl is a slut. Never date a slut. My point is, sex is a special time and everyone is ready to do it at different times. Don't rush into it, because you might end up regretting it. So when you face the choice of yes or no, think to yourself... are you ready?
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