How do we know when a relationship is over? Do we miss the signs of a failing relationship? Sometimes when someone is dumped, they don't know what went wrong... and when. The truth is, we often miss the signs. Sometimes we don't even know we are showing signs ourselves.
Do you think you're becoming distant from your significant other? Are you afraid of being dumped soon? Here are some signs you may have missed:
1.(S)He seems bored, distant, and distracted when you go out.
2. You see (s)he checking out other girls/guys.
3. (S)He tries to avoid kissing/hugging you. When you do, he seems distracted and resistant.
4.(S)He often cancels dates or makes up excuses to not hang out.
I'm sorry to say, but sometimes you can't get him/her back. Sometimes his/her feelings change. Sometimes they like someone else and don't want to deal with the guilt. They end the relationship, before it becomes too serious or they do something like cheat on you, so they don't hurt you even more. When I broke up with my boyfriend, it wasn't only because he was an asshole. It was partly because I was developing feelings for someone else.
Sometimes you can't change the fate of your relationship. Sometimes, it's not meant to be. To those who have been recently dumped, it's not your fault. Go out and find someone you can be with for a long time. To those who have recently dumped someone, it may be bad now, you may feel guilty about hurting him/her now, but think what could have happen in the future. Things could have gotten to serious. (S)He would fall in love, and you wouldn't, so you would end up hurting them more. Think to yourself, is there anything that could save your relationship? And, how long would it last?
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