Do women just want to be rescued? Do women just want a man to keep them from loneliness? Of course. No one likes feeling alone. But, do women have to be rescued by a "Prince Charming"? (Or "Princess Charming" if you go that way) Women can be 'rescued' by a friend instead of a lover. The truth is, all a woman needs in this kind of 'rescue' is a good friend.
Most men like rescuing women from loneliness. It makes them feel like the dominant sex while women are weak beings who depend on the men for everything. The truth is, women only need men for sex, and sometimes women like other woman instead! Men, us women don't need you for anything other than reproduction. You guys are just willing to do stuff for us so we let you.
Some men are turned off by an independent woman, believe me, it happened to me. I fell for a guy. He liked me too, when I was a weak, self-conscious girl who depended on people, and he was more than happy to be that person. But, thanks to some amazing friends, I grew out of my shell and became this strong, confident, independent girl who didn't need him. I still loved him, but because I was so independent, he was afraid I would reject him, if not now then eventually. And guys don't like being rejected. It hurts their 'manly-man pride'.
So the answer is, yes. A woman wants to be rescued, but it could be by a lover or a friend or a family member. Men just like to be the hero because they are proud human beings. But, remember this girls. You don't need to depend on a guy. We can do anything a guy can, and we only need them for reproduction. And if we found a way around that, we would kick those guys to the curb. Am I right?
Most men like rescuing women from loneliness. It makes them feel like the dominant sex while women are weak beings who depend on the men for everything. The truth is, women only need men for sex, and sometimes women like other woman instead! Men, us women don't need you for anything other than reproduction. You guys are just willing to do stuff for us so we let you.
Some men are turned off by an independent woman, believe me, it happened to me. I fell for a guy. He liked me too, when I was a weak, self-conscious girl who depended on people, and he was more than happy to be that person. But, thanks to some amazing friends, I grew out of my shell and became this strong, confident, independent girl who didn't need him. I still loved him, but because I was so independent, he was afraid I would reject him, if not now then eventually. And guys don't like being rejected. It hurts their 'manly-man pride'.
So the answer is, yes. A woman wants to be rescued, but it could be by a lover or a friend or a family member. Men just like to be the hero because they are proud human beings. But, remember this girls. You don't need to depend on a guy. We can do anything a guy can, and we only need them for reproduction. And if we found a way around that, we would kick those guys to the curb. Am I right?
Molly - I enjoy your brutality in writing. You speak what you feel, and back it up well. And, I appreciate your writings as they've proven to be a help in my relationship. Due to this post directly, I was given the courage to leave my boyfriend, who was abusive to me. I loved him, deeply. But, I never had the courage to walk away. I'm not in female empowerment classes and meetings and becoming a better woman and person to myself. Thank you so much.
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I meant that I'm now in female empowerment classes and meetings. - Sorry, I made an error. Thanks, again!
DeleteWow. Lydia, I'm so happy that I was able to create a difference in your life with my post. You just made my year. And I'm happy for you. You learned to stand up for yourself and you are fighting to become a confident, independent woman. No one deserves a man who abuses her, no matter what the guy says. You are an inspiration to those afraid to say goodbye to an abuser. I have to say I am so proud of you, and I wish you good luck on your happier life.
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You've made a difference Molly. I'll never forget the name, 'Molly Meyer'. I'm going to share a bit with you, considering you're my relationship angel.
ReplyDeleteHe would beat me, if I didn't have sex with him. I was so jaded by being in love, that I lost sight on taking care of myself. I'm done with relationships and dating for a while, I need to find myself again. I'm a woman, and that means I'm a strong individual. I need to find myself, find my zen in this beautiful universe. You've opened my eyes - and my sisters are thankful for your positive influence on me. We're so thankful. I can't help but notice you haven't written in a while. - I hope you continue writing soon. Further impacting me. You have a talent for the truth, and your young yet full of insight, and an experience of her own. You're an inspirational gal. I know not all men are the same. I need to find one that works for me. But, I've learned that the most important relationship, is the one you share with yourself. Until I read your blog, I had a shitty relationship with myself. But, I'm taking action day by day, to be a better person, living an even better life.
- Lydia.