At the end of yet another failed relationship, one might wonder, what is it all worth? Why do we have to go through so many failed relationships, usually, to find true love? Wouldn't it be easier to just find the love of your life the first time and avoid all the heartbreak and mistakes? But, don't we learn from our mistakes? If we didn't have trial and error, then we might not see who is really our true love. We won't be able to compare the love of our life to our exes, so we would never truly see how good the person is for us.
Could a certain amount of failed relationships make us lose hope? Make someone too scared to try again for the one when their expecting the relationship to crash and burn like always? With their heart broken so many times, could it be too fragile to let them try again, forbidding a person from finding true love? A person's heart can only be broken so many times before it starts to fail. A person can only stand so much heartbreak before giving up and shutting down. Us humans are not emotionally deprived immortals. We need love to thrive. We need love to survive.
Heartbreak can have a major affect on a person. A person can lose self-esteem and faith in not only their relationships, but themselves. With each heartbreak, a person falls further and further into depression. Soon enough, said person will give up on dating and just might end up living alone in a house full of every species of cat known to man (or woman). But what would have happened if the person gave dating one last chance, and found someone who could heal his/her heart instead of breaking it, but (s)he didn't. Then (s)he would have missed out on a happy life.
These questions are ones only you can answer. Are you going to risk another heartbreak by trying again? Or are you going to risk missing out on a great life by giving up? You decide.
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