No matter how hard one tries, could one ever escape their spirits of relationships past? Or, are they forever haunted by the ghost? I've only ever been in one relationship, and that relationship has scarred me. And I have recently found out he still likes me. Yep, my life is fucked up. My past always somehow finds a way into my future. And romance is no exception. It happens to everyone, whether they like it or not. My ex even has Felmo, one of my best friends choosing him over me. He's even texting another one of my friends, and she is using my phone, so he thinks I still like him. In his dreams and my nightmares. I don't know how, but my only ex has found a way back into my life. And he won't be leaving anytime soon.
So, what do should you do when your ex relationships start to haunt you? I'm trying to get my friends to realize something. I don't care if they still talk to my ex... much. But I want them to realize how bitchy it is to pick him over me. Or to plan to do drugs with him and invite me over (which is exactly what the girl who texts him using my phone is doing). I don't pick their ex's over them. I understand if they were friends with my ex before I dated him, but they weren't.
The only person I can actually trust to not betray me, or make fun of me because of my ex, is my only guy friend, and the only exception to my trust issues, Halsey. He pretty much hates my ex, which is what I've always wanted Felmo to do. The point of my ranting is, our ex's will find a way back into our lives, whether it's months later or years later. They may even befriend our friends and have them choose our ex over us. What you have to do is explain to your friends that it is so not okay to betray you like that and make them understand what they did. And, explain to your ex that you really don't want to stay friends. That you want to start of a new relationship without your old one haunting you. What would you do if you were romantically haunted?
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