"Complexion"

Forget the sun; the real center of the universe is beauty. I'm left here to question why this is. It seems that in this day and age, if you aren't Miss America, you can't find a guy who'll love you ... You'll rarely find a man eager to learn about the real you, the fabulous person that you are from within. Apparently, if you aren't the bombshell of the millennium, there simply can't be anything great about you to discover later on. First impressions are no longer about your intelligence, personality and wit, they are strictly about appearance and how you can model a pair of Daisy Dukes.

When exactly did men get together and decide that they won't settle for anything less than a giraffe with big huge breasts? However, I'm not trying to point these fingers at only the male population - We females do it too. Generally, we seek guys that have a big dick, expensive houses and also a top-earning job ... Discrimination is only a part of being human, ladies - I mean who would want a guy who has a small dick, lives in a shack and works at McDonalds? Obviously, we've all fallen victim to idealism and illusion. We all desire what we simply can't have or haven't been able to find yet ... Which leads me to wonder - Are the men and women of my generation going to ultimately settle for second and even third bests, or are they going to die looking for the prize?

We've all heard the saying "don't judge a book by it's cover" ... But, in the matters of relationships, who's going to take the time to read the book if the cover doesn't lure them into it? However, could you be possibly missing out on something that's great and valuable by not taking the time to explore it? I think it's pretty fair to say that "open-minded" = good; "close-minded" = bad - But, are we being too quick to judge judgement? Perhaps, judgement is not so much a snap decision, but more an early warning and detection device. If it is instantly clear that a person, place or even a profession isn't for you, is it better to ignore your better judgement reading between the lines ... Or, should you judge a book by its cover?

Things have changed so drastically over the course of time. It's all about greed and being set in your ways. Everyone you encounter is usually materialistic and superficial. It has become a sport to find someone who's caring and genuine in their approach. If you are not as pretty as the girl to your right, which one of you two is a man likely to hit on in the bar? The supermodel with a killer body and big blue eyes of course. Personality tends to mean squat - Especially when a perky pair of double d's is at your side. Which leads me to wonder ... When it comes to bags, men and suburbs, is it what's on the outside that counts?

If you're like me and have unfortunately fallen prey to being the "Odd Girl Out" in the matters of dating and relationships, ultimately having a great rack chosen over everything you have to offer to a man, don't feel bad. Add him to the list of dickheads and move on - When his big titty brigade does come to an end, and he's heartbroken when he comes to see that she's already married or has pulled some scummy move on him, that's retribution enough. Don't give up and don't shed a tear ... Prince Charming on the white horse is caught up at a detour, but he's coming.