"I just can't believe a guy would think I'm sexy. Smart? Yes. Maybe even cute at times, but never sexy. Sexy is the thing that I try to get them to see in me after I win them over with my personality." ~ Miranda Hobbes.

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

"What's The Difference?"

Did you know that there is a major difference between having sex and making love? Unfortunately, most people don't...To most people, it's all about the pleasure they can achieve. If it's 'slow', it's irrationally considered making love. But that's hardly ever true. Just because it's done slowly, sex can have absolutely nothing to do with being love. Making love is when you care about the other person, your goal is their pleasure, not your own and you're riddled with intensity and passion. It could be done fast, slow, in a bed or even inside of an airplane bathroom. The main point being your goal of giving your partner pure pleasure. Whom's pleasure is the most important to you when in the bedroom? If it's solely your own, then you might as well just be having a one night stand with a complete stranger, because that's basically all it will mean to you once it's said and done honestly. On the contrary, if it's your partner's pleasure whom you truly care about, then you'd be making love. Making love will commonly flurry one with numerous emotions filled with passion. Be aware of the difference, it really helps when differentiating certain relationships from others and also in the long run of things throughout your entire love life.

2 comments:

  1. How're you doing, Molly? It's me Lydia. Update : I'm doing well and I met a guy who I'm sorta into. But I'm taking everything slow, still experiencing some trust issues, ( I'm sure that you understand. ) Also, I suggest you do more postings like this - They're fantastic pieces and you don't do many.
    I'd like to see more of this here on S.A.T.S! :) x
    -Lydia.

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  2. Lydia,
    I'm ecstatic that you decided to update me on your life! I understand your trust issues, and I'm very happy your moving on. I hope things go well with this new guy! I'll try to write more post like this. Keep me updated!
    -Molly

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