So picture this. You're in a relationship with someone who's amazing, but the relationship's going nowhere. For whatever reason, you just don't want it going any further. So what do you do in this situation? Fake it or end it? With choice one, you wouldn't be hurting his/her feelings immediately, but please note, it will have to end at some point. You shouldn't be a total coward and wait for the other person to end it ... Also, if you decide upon 'faking-it', you are depriving your partner of being with someone who really wants to spend the rest of their life with him/her. You'd also be depriving them of the real, true, breathtaking love that everybody deserves and really desires. So that would leave us with choice two, to end it. It's the best choice for both of you. They can find someone who returns every ounce of love they receive, and you can go find someone who you actually want to spend the rest of your life with. Lying when you're in a relationship and lying about your feelings will only harm people in the end. Believe me as I have been there before. Don't fake it.
Thank you for posting this, Molly! I'm going to share it with a girlfriend who suspects that her boyfriend's 'faking it'. She says she's in love, but she has to confront the situation head on provided her suspicions are a reality. I'm such a big fan, props to all your success!
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ReplyDeleteI'm happy I could help you. Every time I learn I changed a life, I remember why I started this blog in the first place.
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