"When The Crusher Gets Crushed"

We all have that someone. Even if you don't realize it right now, you still do. That someone who the mere thought of him/her makes your heart inevitably pound repeatedly, every time you speak to each other you play with your hair, or uncontrollably blush, even becoming anxious and nervous. And all of us have had that crush where it is blatantly obvious that it's there. If you haven't, get off my blog and back to your coloring books because you're way too young. It's going to happen eventually. But what happens when everyone and their brother knows about your crushing and he decides to play you? Then crush you?

This had happened to me two years ago. After four consecutive years of hating this guys' sheer existence, I found that immense hate  evolving into love. And I fell really hard. I evolved myself. I stopped being the quiet girl in the corner who read to avoid any form of contact with other humans to the girl who was so super social, outgoing and who only read in the safety of her own home. Apparently he didn't like that. He asked out another girl, and completely broke my heart.

Instead of crying on someone's shoulder or planning ways in which to kill this girl or break them up, I vowed to stop liking him and let them be. He didn't like that either. When he realized I wasn't jealous or trying to win him over, he stopped kissing her in front of me and started to flirt with me again. Sometimes I had ignored him, sometimes I was a complete and utter bitch, and sometimes I was friendly, hoping we could stay friends. In other terms, I was beginning to send out mixed symbols. But he had started it!

Anyway, he ended up dumping her. But I still refused to let him in. He was too much of an asshole for my taste. He had decided upon ignoring me for a whole year, then when we were out into the same math class, (Mind you I am still in high school.) He decided upon sending mixed symbols yet again. Sometimes, he would flirt, sometimes he would ignore me, and sometimes he would be a total jackass. But I refuse to let him back into my life. Thanks to him I've experienced my first heartbreak, and I really don't ever want to give him the opportunity to do so again...

When the crusher gets crushed, the crusher has but only a few options. One, fight for him/her and never give up on it. Two, remain friends with him/her. Or last but not least, three. Never give him/her the chance to do it again. Personally, I'm a fan of three, myself...but the choice is yours. Heartbreak is unavoidable, but that doesn't mean you can't try to.